In this experience of the virtual reality you perceive with the eyes, all is what you choose it to be. Yes. In the world of form, that is, all is what you choose it to be by way of the meaning you choose. Many have chosen meaning that no longer serves them, no longer feels like something they want to feel, but they have forgotten how to choose differently. When you are suffering in any way and you no longer want to feel that way, the answer is not changing the circumstances. In reality, the answer is learning that the suffering is your own creation – remembering that you have the power to choose differently. The experience is always created at the level of vibration and sensation and meaning and manifestation/form. In other words, the experience is created on all four of these levels, not just one. So, when you choose a vibration you want to feel of peace, but you do not choose differently at the level of meaning which has already created an experience of not having peace, then you have to choose which to let go and which to create when creating experiences that are mixed vibrations, mixed meaning, mixed desires, where you put your attention, your will, intent and focus is which is amplified. It is much like tuning a radio receiver or turning a channel on a television. You decide which to focus upon and this creates your experience. Yes.
This is independent of the appearance of things. You decide which channel to tune into by where you place your will/focus/intent. If you are flipping back and forth between channels, your experience will be mixed between the two and you will wonder why you are not experiencing what you want. There is contrast in your experience of what you do and do not want because you are tuning into both. If you want to tune into only what you want, then focus on that. Change the channel to that and leave it there. Let go of the distractions through alignment.
Align. Allow. Let go.
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As you practice choosing through alignment, it will become easier to take back your power that you have given away to the appearance of things through your beliefs. The source energy that expands your awareness, helping to remove blocks and allowing you to see more clearly, will assist you in the exact way you need and you will be, once again, free from the mistakes of perception that make you think you are somehow not whole (oneness), somehow not complete (perfection) and somehow not able (power).
Yes. And so it is.